Get used to it. DD2 got an earful for a backhander at 1st that she tipped and then 2B got it and still got the out. Still heard about it the next day. Most coaches don't help the girls 'rise up', they choose to use words and antiquated ways that they were coached by. DD2 has 3 TB teammates on the same HS team and they came back to win a wild game after blowing a 9 run lead and the coach said she didn't have anything nice to say and made them go home.