Just curious to hear how all of you find that balance between softball, school and letting DD be a kid.
Heres my struggle in a nutshell, 12 YO DD has been playing travel ball for the last 3 years, she is a phenomenal student (straight As) and very good violinist, not the most athletic kid on the field but really enjoys the game. About 18 months ago she decided she wanted to be a pitcher. So of course being the crazy dad I am, I got her started with a PC. She attends lessons 1/week and we find time to practice pitching when we can. Over the last 18 months she has really improved and I think she could be pretty good at it. She is currently the #2 P on her team. She is pretty driven in everything she does which means she pushed to get into the 8th grade Algebra class as a 7th grader, she plays in 3 different school orchestras, and is a member of the girl scouts. Obviously the academics are first and foremost then its a toss up between everything Ive listed and being a 12 YO girl with friends and other social events she enjoys. I can see she could be a good pitcher but as I read on hear all the time it sounds like if you want to hit or pitch at a high level its 3-5 practices outside of team practices each week.
So just curious to hear how you guys/gals balance this all out and not drive your spouse or other children crazy.
Also do you get crazy looks from relatives when you tell them what your schedule is each week especially during the summer tourney season.
Thanks for your feedback
PTC
Heres my struggle in a nutshell, 12 YO DD has been playing travel ball for the last 3 years, she is a phenomenal student (straight As) and very good violinist, not the most athletic kid on the field but really enjoys the game. About 18 months ago she decided she wanted to be a pitcher. So of course being the crazy dad I am, I got her started with a PC. She attends lessons 1/week and we find time to practice pitching when we can. Over the last 18 months she has really improved and I think she could be pretty good at it. She is currently the #2 P on her team. She is pretty driven in everything she does which means she pushed to get into the 8th grade Algebra class as a 7th grader, she plays in 3 different school orchestras, and is a member of the girl scouts. Obviously the academics are first and foremost then its a toss up between everything Ive listed and being a 12 YO girl with friends and other social events she enjoys. I can see she could be a good pitcher but as I read on hear all the time it sounds like if you want to hit or pitch at a high level its 3-5 practices outside of team practices each week.
So just curious to hear how you guys/gals balance this all out and not drive your spouse or other children crazy.
Also do you get crazy looks from relatives when you tell them what your schedule is each week especially during the summer tourney season.
Thanks for your feedback
PTC