- May 11, 2012
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I will never be one of those over the top dads who pushes their kids beyond their limits and beyond liking the game. Ive coached too long and seen too many of those kinds of dads/moms to ever be like that. However, I ALWAYS catch myself being too hard on my DD( in my head) and forgetting her age. She is in her second year of softball and she plays with girls 1-2 years older than her. Just finished 3rd grade and just turned 9. She is a good little pitcher( our teams 3) and averages about 8-9K's per game and about a 1.5-2.0 ERA. . She bats lead off, is our 4th fastest kid and either starts at 2B/SS and also gets time at C and CF. The kid for all intensive purposes is well beyond her years and on a very good team stands out. However like any kid, she of course has those moments where she makes a big mistake and every once in a while gets psyched out by some of the faster pitchers who are big. ( she is 4'9, 75lbs and some girls at 10U are 5'6-5'7, 150-175)
As I am about to ask her "why didnt you _______?" or "why are you doing this?" etc..... I remember she is just a little girl. LOL. Even more a little girl then the kids she plays with. Im soooo used to comparing her to 11 year olds who are really good players themselves that its easy to forget the age difference and experience difference.
I feel lucky that I am able to see myself heading into this train of though and stop myself. Too many people arent capable of doing this and they lay into their kids and eventually their kids get burnt out and quit or stop having fun.............or even worse develop dislike and anger towards their parents.
As I am about to ask her "why didnt you _______?" or "why are you doing this?" etc..... I remember she is just a little girl. LOL. Even more a little girl then the kids she plays with. Im soooo used to comparing her to 11 year olds who are really good players themselves that its easy to forget the age difference and experience difference.
I feel lucky that I am able to see myself heading into this train of though and stop myself. Too many people arent capable of doing this and they lay into their kids and eventually their kids get burnt out and quit or stop having fun.............or even worse develop dislike and anger towards their parents.