At the end of DD's campus tour, Dad, mom and DD ended up in the coaches office at the end of the day. During the day he would check back in, take her to the next spot, lunch etc and kept saying if you have any questions be ready to ask at the end. I told her you better have some questions! We are now sitting across the desk from the coach and he asks: What questions do you have? DD asks, how do you see me fitting in here? Coach goes round and round and finally says I would like to offer you a roster spot. How much time do you need to make a decision? DD blurts out. I am ready to go RIGHT NOW! Coach's eyes pop wide open in disbelief and looks at mom and myself and says Mom, Dad are you okay with this!?
Yes, the interaction should be between Coaches and DD's for the most part. Parents are there for confirmation.
When we left the office to walk back to our car I said. Okay that escalated quickly! She said, Dad if I wasn't playing softball, I could see myself going to school here and everything felt right. Okay then. 6 days later the coach calls DD to tell her that he is leaving. I was afraid of that because of his resume of coaching major D1's. I knew he couldn't stick around too long, but dang! I should have asked him how long he plans on coaching here.
Yes, the interaction should be between Coaches and DD's for the most part. Parents are there for confirmation.
When we left the office to walk back to our car I said. Okay that escalated quickly! She said, Dad if I wasn't playing softball, I could see myself going to school here and everything felt right. Okay then. 6 days later the coach calls DD to tell her that he is leaving. I was afraid of that because of his resume of coaching major D1's. I knew he couldn't stick around too long, but dang! I should have asked him how long he plans on coaching here.