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Possibilities & Opportunities!
- Dec 13, 2019
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Drawing this lineI coach a 12u B-level travel team. I have a young lady that I've coached for 3 years and this year there is a definite change in how she approaches the game. She is a great kid, a great athlete, good attitude but doesn't seem to be enjoying the game itself anymore. After talking with some of the team (player) leaders, this particular player has said that she no longer wants to play softball and wants to focus on other sports, but because it's somewhat mid-season her parents want her to finish this year. As a Father, I appreciate that sentiment. I want to be very clear, I do not take this personally and in no way shape, or form plan on taking it out on the player. My question is should I talk to the player to see if there's a way I could make this season better or more enjoyable for her? Or should I just leave it alone as it's a family matter?
Your a softball coach
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Not the family/child counselor
Focus on your teams attitude, and positive dynamic...which she is included in.
Coach should be thinking of the group.
Individual issue's are generally growing pains.
Just because you can see some emotions on her face or posture, and not others, doesnt mean others arent having growing pains of there own.
Let the parents do the parenting.
They can see their own daughters attitude just like you.
If her attitude becomes disruptive, treat her like any player having a 'tude'.
Further there are at times whiney spoiled issues do come up...but they are family issues!
imo focus on your TEAM!
Team culture works the same in well hmmmm every sport.
She can learn that and use it elsewhere if she then choses another sport.
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