related, what do you do if your Tb coach gives conflicting instruction from private instructor?
I've seen a couple of coaches who think that every private instructor except the ones his DDs go to are idiots. If you ask them not to mess with your kid, they will reluctantly comply when you're around and then jack around with swings/pitching mechanics anytime the parents aren't looking. I'd guess that the consensus would be to not play for someone like that.