Certainly there are many things to talk about that are actually about the playing of the game. Aka the sport on the field. Mechanics, talent, different styles and footwork...
And yet certain folks are more ingulfed in the emotional experiences of others...
Then
Complain complain complain
Stuck on their own complaining train.
Good Luck wherever that train goes...
I agree with you. From my perspective it is more a matter of class than it is emotion. You can show emotion and still do so respectfully.