- Jan 9, 2015
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There is a big difference with general knowledge such as defensive schemes, player positioning,.... and pitching mechanics. Trying to position a player is so much different than getting a mechanical adjustment between innings. You have no idea the pitches being called, if you are shifting a cf to the left because the batter pulls the ball and the coach is calling everything out in the river then you are not doing anyone a bit of good. These are coaching decisions that are made not mechanical adjustments. Now if the dad says "hey you are taking two steps forward on all fly balls, you need to take two back" that would be similar. And if the coach hasn't caught that the kid is doing so then maybe it should be brought to her attention by dad.
This goes back to one of my earlier posts. If you feel that you know more than the coach about pitching, then talk to the coach. Do what it takes to get yourself in the dugout as an assistant. Help the team out. If you truly know more than any coach on staff about pitching, then you owe it to the team to share your knowledge and help all the pitchers. If not all the pitchers, then at least see about being in the dugout when DD is pitching.
What kind of example are you setting for your child, the other parents and the rest of the team if you are constantly coaching from the stands or behind the dugout? You are creating a situation that can lead to friction on your team, and your coach losing the control of the team in general. Your intentions may be good enough, but any other parents looking to undermine the coach are going to use your actions to undermine the team. Soon enough parents will start questioning game decisions, and start giving hitting lessons from the stands. After about 3 months of this, everyone loses because your team has disbanded.
Many of us will have to just agree to disagree on this subject. That's okay. I see both sides of it. I ask that you all also try to look at both sides. It is a very slippery slope allowing a parent to come over and give advice in the middle of a game. Again, any coach worth his/her salt will let you be an AC in the dugout to help handle the pitchers if you truly know what you are doing. If you don't want to be in the dugout you can always pass information to the coach to then pass to DD as THE COACH sees fit. .