I am glad I came across this thread because I have a DD that is a Freshman this year and I hope all goes well with her this year. Her school only has a varsity team so she will be with all upperclasswomen. One thing that comes to my mind is that there could be another Freshman on the team this year that may go thru the same thing your DD did last year so your DD could help her with her situation. Your DD could be the girl who helps change the atmosphere on the team if she plays this year. If she truly loves the game then I hope she plays.