WWYD - depleted roster for a tournament

[WARRIORMIKE]

Scrub the tourney. Not worth the mental and Finacial stress

 

[Sparky Guy]

It is an interesting situation because no matter what you do, someone is disappointed or at risk.
If you withdraw, the families are disappointed and you are unlikely to get invited back. If you go and play poorly, the families are disappointed and out money to travel for a buttkicking, your rankings suffer and you and your org may not get another invite.
If you burn out the #1, not only is that showing lack of respect for her health, but she may not be available for future events.

Read this and it pretty much sums up your situation.

The Man, the Boy, and the Donkey. Aesop. 1909-14. Fables. The Harvard Classics