- Feb 3, 2011
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Last Saturday, I asked the HC to pull my daughter before an inning was over. I know many coaches and parents don't like that, but I felt a change was best for the team AND for DD in that moment. She'd pitched 2 scoreless innings and then walked the first 2 batters in the top of the 6th. The next batter popped one up to short RF and it was dropped. Eventually, the other team took the lead and IMO it was a game our team needed to win to get a better Sunday draw. A stretch of 9 balls vs 3 strikes told me it was time for a change and the HC went with my suggestion. I know his philosophy is to let them work through it, but I could see it was a sugar crash that she wasn't going to recover from. She made a mental error on a bunt which seemed to be an indication she was beginning to lose focus. We talked about it afterwards and he said he does like for them to face adversity and work through it, but he added he had no problems with me making that call. Our team is loaded with good pitching. DD had no problem with it at all.
Mom was pissed, though. She doesn't really understand what a team game is. There are those girls who would be humiliated or their confidence shot with the mid-inning change, but Mojo is not that kid. I always tell her to drink more water than Gatorade and not to even take sugar into the dugout, but she had elected to ignore my counsel. When Coach called her number, she was hyped up and ready, but by that 3rd inning of work, the breakdown was evident. It may sound mean, but it took something like this for her to finally understand what Daddy is talking about.
On Sunday, she hydrated herself with water all day and then when it was time for her to pitch in the Championship game, she was ready to answer the bell and performed very well against the strongest opponent this team had ever seen, holding them to 3 runs (1 earned) in her 2 innings. They didn't get the win, but their overall performance on the weekend was one they and the parents will not soon forget.
Mom was pissed, though. She doesn't really understand what a team game is. There are those girls who would be humiliated or their confidence shot with the mid-inning change, but Mojo is not that kid. I always tell her to drink more water than Gatorade and not to even take sugar into the dugout, but she had elected to ignore my counsel. When Coach called her number, she was hyped up and ready, but by that 3rd inning of work, the breakdown was evident. It may sound mean, but it took something like this for her to finally understand what Daddy is talking about.
On Sunday, she hydrated herself with water all day and then when it was time for her to pitch in the Championship game, she was ready to answer the bell and performed very well against the strongest opponent this team had ever seen, holding them to 3 runs (1 earned) in her 2 innings. They didn't get the win, but their overall performance on the weekend was one they and the parents will not soon forget.