I have to agree to a point. I think my oldest daughter fits the description of your last point while my youngest daughter doesn't seem to be bothered by a critique.
Like I said; there are always outliers (your daughter that doesn’t mind might be one). However you would be surprised about how many girls take it to heart and wait years to say anything to their parents. I usually hear it before the parents do (I’m a semi-retired pitcher/pitching coach for 12 years/clinical adolescent and young adult therapist/psychology professor.)