- Jan 9, 2015
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Okay so to answer some of your questions... The catcher has always had an attitude, she is a good player, but her attitude has gotten worse over the last few weeks. She would make comments at tournaments and some of the coaches from our team would tell her to watch herself as the players parents she was talking about were able to hear her. It has been a team thing that they deal with her attitude (she is the HC's daughter), so people tolerate it. It hasn't been this bad. She acts like a spoiled brat, and many girls on the team don't have to worry about playing with her as they play other positions away from her. The good news is she usually doesn't catch for my daughter as they have other catchers that she works well with. My daughter knows that on a team she is not going to like everyone she plays with, and that's okay. She does, however, have to play with her teammates regardless of whether or not they like each other. The catcher's behavior this weekend was the worst it has been. I have told my daughter that cooler heads prevail, that when the team gets back together she should continue to work hard to contribute, and that she can't control the actions and behaviors of others. This team has qualified for the World Series in July, so they need to get it together so they can play the best they can at Nationals. I don't feel like I or my daughter has sour grapes. She is very aware of the areas she needs to improve on and works to try to improve on them. I take nothing away from the talent of the girls on this team, they are very good players. My problem is the negative attitude that has started to develop over the last few weeks.. I don't want to see this team fall apart and I don't think its right for anyone (regardless of the circumstances) to use the f-bomb around kids. If that is sour grapes then I guess I have sour grapes after all...
In terms of hearing or reporting what was said, I never report or discuss something I didn't personally hear. I know enough that when dealing with kids lots of information can be miscommunicated. There was no doubt what was said and who it was said too.. Regarding a revolt, I am concerned that may happen, and that would be bad, as we started out in a good place. I make no excuses for my daughter - I try to have her own her behaviors and play, but I also try to tell her that she deserves respect.
Thanks for the clarification. If all is true, then you need to move on. The F bomb is bad enough, but I'd be more concerned with the attitudes coming from the coaches & catcher. It is really of no concern if the team qualified for the World Series or not. Do you really want to spend a week straight in a hotel room with these coaches and this kid?
I am still shocked that the catcher was doing what was said in a game. That would never fly with the umpires in our part of the country. The tournament directors are very big against bullying. She would have been talked to in between innings, then kicked out after another attempt at taking your DD ankles out.