I need some help. My DD has the opportunity to upgrade to a new team: better coaching, higher quality playing teammates, more competitive schedule. Problem is that she has many friends on her current team, and, as a 14 yr old girl, this is very important to her, which I certainly understand. She is pushing against the team switch. Part of me says its her call...let her play where, and with whom she wants. Yet, at the same time, the more competitive team will present opportunities to improve and be seen, that her current team will not. She says she wants to play in college, acts like she does with lessons and practice, but then resists the opportunity to upgrade. Any advice? Thx