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So what do her academics look like? Is she concerned about getting a good education?
Her academics are okay. Good but not stellar. Course load is light but gets primarily As.
So what do her academics look like? Is she concerned about getting a good education?
Very true, but if you look at all of the P5 schools some do not have softball programs and many will never make it to a regional, much less the WCWS. Success and income from the football program certainly does not translate to success on the softball field. But I guess some folks are enamored with playing softball for a school with a storied football program.
So true, man. You can imagine my horror the day DD told me she'd like to play for Alabama.
I also advise being very cautious about getting involved. If you do, make sure you know what the niece really wants first so you can advocate on her behalf. Her TB coach probably knows why the college coaches are moving on.
Thats a great point, Sierra Romera the National player of the year and 3 time finalist had to change positions her junior year because U of M found a better defensive shortstop.There is so much more to being a P5 D1 athlete than just playing time. I think our travel ball culture of 11 player rosters has given parents and players an expectation of playing time. There is nothing promised. A better girl might get recruited next year and you can go from playing to sitting very quickly. Does a player want to see if they can stack up against the very best players and teams or do they want to play a lot at a lower level? That is each player's decision. Expectation management is key. Go to the SEC school and give it a shot and then transfer if you are not happy. That is what I would suggest. Committing to play college ball is a not a 4 year prison sentence if you are not happy...
There's a huge difference between having a dream (e.g. riches, glory) and committing yourself to doing whatever it takes to make it come true. Dreaming is the easy part. Pursuing them is the hard part.Last time I saw Jen was last summer. She told me that her dream was to play for Oklahoma or Michigan. I think she too is looking for a big name D1.
Reality is there is more than 1 path to "playing at that high caliber." If she really has the potential and just needs the right program as you suggest, she could walk on and prove herself -or- spend 1-2 years developing with a good pitching coach at a lower level program and transfer after establishing herself. These are just a couple of the various possibilities.If it were my kid, I would be sitting her down and explaining the realities of life to her and that the chances of her playing at that high of a caliber is admirable but not realistic. Her parents believe she walks on water and encourages her to pursue her dreams. I think that's setting her up to fail. It's one thing if she's incredible but she's currently above average but could become great with the right pitching coach.
There's a huge difference between having a dream (e.g. riches, glory) and committing yourself to doing whatever it takes to make it come true. Dreaming is the easy part. Pursuing them is the hard part.
Reality is there is more than 1 path to "playing at that high caliber." If she really has the potential and just needs the right program as you suggest, she could walk on and prove herself -or- spend 1-2 years developing with a good pitching coach at a lower level program and transfer after establishing herself. These are just a couple of the various possibilities.
OTOH, does she know what she wants to do with the rest of her life after softball? If so, how does softball play into that?
Sister's dd, Jen, is a junior in HS and plays for one of the big name teams in CA. Team is a big name but coach is not a big name. Of the 16 girls on Jen's U18 team, only 4 have been committed. 2 of the 4 are to D1 schools. One a major D1 and the other mid to low major D1. The other 2 kids are committed to D3s.
Jen is a good pitcher (she doesn't play any other positions nor bat), not phenomenal, but she's fast and she's got the height (6'4") and attracts a lot of initial attention. The reason I say initial attention is, for some reason or other, she has difficulty holding on to the attention of a coach. According to my sis, many coaches come out to watch Jen, over and over again. They talk to her coach on her big name team. Some ask Jen to call them, they speak a couple of times, but nothing further comes of it.
Reality check coming. The top 1% of the top 10% of all softball players in the U.S. are recruited to the top 50 major D1 programs every year. Out of 550,000+ softball players across the country that means approximately 550 get recruited by the major D1's. So my question to you is, is she one of the top 550 players in the country? The next point I have to make, is if the program isn't in a major rebuilding year talent-wise, I would say the chances of her starting aren't very good at all if she's a Freshman. The caveat being unless she's either a stud pitcher, a stud catcher with a big bat or a SB player that either bats .600 or hits a homerun every third at bat. Obviously, this is a slight exaggeration, but not by much.