Howard,
Thats' probably a better way to phrase it. One of my biggest pet peeves is poor throwing mechanics so I've alwyas stressed, to my daughter especially, to not throw like a "girl". I have to admit I like your terminology ALOT better. I'm going to start using that instead of my old standby. The one thing we have always pointed out to our girls is there is a direct correlation from one skill to another one in softball. I just can't believe I didn't catch this bat drag sooner.
crankermo another drill if you want to call it a drill is to take a bat handle and cut it off about 14 to 15 inches above the knob and then deburr or sand down the rough edges where you cut the bat and then drill a hole in the knob of the bat and tie a knot in the rope. I like using the bigger rope at Home Depot or Lowes. Now have her get ready to hit and think slow to load and soft to step on the inside edge of her lead foot and make sure the lead foot knee is flexed or bent slightly. You are holding the rope about where the catcher sets up. Make sure she has separated her hands rearward a little much like gathering momentum to throw. Explain because both hands are on the bat that the bat will not go as far back as the ball would however it is important she has that feeling of building momentum. Top of the hands are about the top of the shoulders and she starts booth elbows at the same time. We like to think in terms of the lead elbow making a good first move of about 2 to 4 inches as the back elbow is lowering and the tilt and turn begin. Look to see where her hands go as to direction. It helps to have a ball on a tee so she knows her hands are going inside the path of the ball in order to get the sweet spot on the bat to release to the ball. The focus right now is bat lag and elbow positioning and it is OK to stage her and set her up so she feels what it is she is supposed to be doing. You should see her turn her shoulders a little more and the bat handle with the rope be trailing and the knob of the bat is leading the elbows and the rope will be somewhat parallel to the ground. Elbow above the hands, hands below the elbow and bat head below the hands at a slight angle. The elbows should be working as a team. Look for the back elbow to be lowering and at connection where the back elbow is passing the front shoulder the elbow will be down and the hand is directly over the elbow or what we term staying strong on the back side. With the girls make sure they clear their chest with the elbows and do not get in so close as they will and you will feel a loss of pulling power. Try it with the elbow in close and a little further away to feel the difference. Then after that do the matrix drill. Learn the motion before you focus on quickness as that is more important especially when first learning what you want it to feel like. I like to think bat control before I work on bat speed.
Thanks Howard