How do you deal with parents?? This is my first year coaching (8u) I've coached 12u, and 14u before. It seems like these parents are just never satisfied. First example, we have 3 pitchers (describing them this way for lack of better terms) a pretty good one, an ok one and one who doesn't need to be on the mound yet aka the not so good one. Our games are usually 2 maybe 3 innings. We rotate out pitchers since it's about more of the experience at this point. The first inning I usually put our good pitcher in, the next I put the ok and if we have a 3rd we put the not so good one in. The mom of the not so good one comes up before a game and asks if her daughter would be pitching. I told her I didn't know if we had 3 innings in the game I may but it depends on the game situation at the time if I put her daughter in our our good pitcher. She said ok she was just wondering if she needed to warm her up. Fast forward to the 3rd inning, I put our good pitcher in. The other team was hitting off the coach like crazy but were having trouble with our ace. It was a tight game (we were down by 1 and still had a bat left) so I didn't want to chance it. During the inning the not so good's dad said hey I need to speak with you. I told him hold on I'll talk to you after this inning. He began telling me how horrible I was for not putting his daughter in and all kind of other stuff. I just told him I'm sorry I did what I thought was best for the team. After the game he met me at my truck and cussed me out! I did talk to our athletic director and he had a meeting with the parents to say it wasn't acceptable. They then only sent their daughter to games only... no practices at all.
second case is this past weekend. We had 12 girls on our all star team. Obviously more than can play on the field so some kids have to rotate out and sit the bench. One parent was mad because in the season her daughter caught but now was in center field. Then she got mad because in her words " She did not travel an hour to have her daughter sit the bench and not play" she also came up and said "So what my daughter won't play today?" THIS KID PLAYED 4 OUT OF 6 INNINGS!!!!!!!!
So question is..... HOW do you deal with these parents?! They are NEVER satisfied!
second case is this past weekend. We had 12 girls on our all star team. Obviously more than can play on the field so some kids have to rotate out and sit the bench. One parent was mad because in the season her daughter caught but now was in center field. Then she got mad because in her words " She did not travel an hour to have her daughter sit the bench and not play" she also came up and said "So what my daughter won't play today?" THIS KID PLAYED 4 OUT OF 6 INNINGS!!!!!!!!
So question is..... HOW do you deal with these parents?! They are NEVER satisfied!