I've coached HS for 30+ years. I have never had a player miss for spring break. It is a given that we will play games and practice. It has been a given that you make all practices and games. I guess when we say things are different other places, they are vastly different.
We only have 13 softball players this year (that's not just Varsity ... 13 total!). Three of them are missing 4 games over spring break.
In the past, coach has always enforced the "miss one, sit one" rule adamantly. Will be interesting to see if he caves this year.