Thanks to Amy, Coach James, NV, and YO for your insight and great advice. Amy - regarding your comment about parents being an issue, I'd like to clarify that for my particular situation I've been a low profile parent, cheering on my DD's entire team, but not getting involved previously as a coach or complaining to the league about their disorganization.
It appears to me that if your child is a one-sport player and you're not part of the "sports in-crowd", your child is at a disadvantage. I just can't see how the team was selected based solely on ability. It appears on the surface that when it comes to in town sports at a young age it's about who you know. If anything, I haven't been "involved enough" to get her a spot on the travel team. I'd rather her be on the team for her ability rather than because the coach was doing me a favor.
It appears to me that if your child is a one-sport player and you're not part of the "sports in-crowd", your child is at a disadvantage. I just can't see how the team was selected based solely on ability. It appears on the surface that when it comes to in town sports at a young age it's about who you know. If anything, I haven't been "involved enough" to get her a spot on the travel team. I'd rather her be on the team for her ability rather than because the coach was doing me a favor.