Ive done both sides of this equation. Started out as casual ball-rec and even some C level. The goal was for DD to find something she loved that I can use as a means to spend time with her. We tried dancing, MMA (I was a fighter/shodan), softball etc etc.
One day she said "Dad I like softball but Im tired of the other girls not taking it serious" So began A ball.
Now we are all in because DD chose to be. The first 2 years I helped how I could. Once I knew for sure she was all in I let my nature take over and went all in. Started a club, traveled to obtain coaching lessons/degrees, quit all my personal hobbies and sports and started living at the ball fields.
I love it. I never had this kind of relationship with my mom or dad like I have with my kids. Being I know what a life without parents is like and what a life with parents is like I choose a life where parents and kids have a common goal and work together.
I LOVE MY OCD SOFTBALL LIFE BECAUSE I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY KIDS THAT I NEVER GOT. Its that simple.
So I am by choice an A TB parent, coach and fan. We all have our reasons.
One day she said "Dad I like softball but Im tired of the other girls not taking it serious" So began A ball.
Now we are all in because DD chose to be. The first 2 years I helped how I could. Once I knew for sure she was all in I let my nature take over and went all in. Started a club, traveled to obtain coaching lessons/degrees, quit all my personal hobbies and sports and started living at the ball fields.
I love it. I never had this kind of relationship with my mom or dad like I have with my kids. Being I know what a life without parents is like and what a life with parents is like I choose a life where parents and kids have a common goal and work together.
I LOVE MY OCD SOFTBALL LIFE BECAUSE I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY KIDS THAT I NEVER GOT. Its that simple.
So I am by choice an A TB parent, coach and fan. We all have our reasons.