- May 6, 2014
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Hi I'm new to the forum. I'll give you a little back story. My daughter has played softball for 7 years. She is always one of the better players on the teams she has played on. Last year she played on a 12u tournament team. My daughter played catcher and 3rd base. Half of the girls (my daughter included) on the 12u team had to move up to 14u this year. The league asked my husband to take the 14u head coach position. My husband contacted a former fall ball coach of my daughter that was looking to start his own tournament team. He had a lot of good players and we like his coaching style and figured our teams combined would be great. They decided to combine teams. Originally we had 2 coaches from our league and 2 coaches from their league. Well.... the other coach from our league decided he wanted his daughter play for a different team because, he wanted the team to play at a B level and we were planing on starting at a C level. SO..... we added another coach from the other league. This was not good because the balance was off from that point on. The other coaches have completely taken over our team. They are making changes without speaking to my husband. They are letting girls start from their side of the team even though they show up 10 min. before a tournament starts while our girls are sitting on the bench and got there on time. Girls are being given positions that they didn't earn. My husband has blown up on them several times (not in front of the team). The other coach always apologizes and admits he was wrong but, he does it again the next tournament. It is very clear that the other coach is favoring his girls above the team. Parents are getting ticked!! We are having as coaches meeting on Thursday. We have asked all the girls parents to send an e-mail stating any problems they would like addressed. Let me tell you there is a few e-mails with the "F" bomb being dropped!! We need advise on how to handle this situation without ruining the rest of the season.