- Jan 6, 2014
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I'd like some other parent's advice (hopefully without volunteering my DD for scrutiny). My DD just made her middle school team. She has several years of experience in LL and puts everything she has out on the field in both practice and games. That being said, her performance in practices has always misrepresented how well she plays in an actual game. The manager is an on staff teacher and the asst coaches are a couple of the other girls fathers who also coach their travel team. We live in a small town that tends to foster nepotism and we happen to be outsiders because we are a military family. The two coaches continue to tinker with my daughter's mechanics (pitching, fielding, and batting) and have blatantly advised her to do things that are against what I know to be standard technique (i.e. hand position while batting, and the are big fans of the HE pitching method but only were it pertains to adjusting pitchers that aren't their daughters). Having been a LL coach I know how frustrating it is when a parent critiques what I'm doing on the field, but I really feel like these two coaches might be hindering my daughters development, but I don't want to be one of "those" parents. So to close up my long rant, should I approach the coaches about this or just tell my DD to soldier on and listen to the coaches for the sake of sportsmanship?