Can't speak to the bag problem, but as a parent my primary concern is safety first. If a coach is requiring the team have the same helmets, then HE must be willing to make sure that the gear fits each kid. Your kid has a large head? Then either she wears her own helmet or the coach provides a helmet that FITS HER properly.
I'm in a similar situation (coach wants all kids having same helmet, same backpack, same everything). Coach wants to 'build a brand'. I'd rather the team build their brand by how they play on the field, not how they look when they get to the field. If he is willing to put image over safety, then there are some deep problems with his coaching philosophy.
I'm in a similar situation (coach wants all kids having same helmet, same backpack, same everything). Coach wants to 'build a brand'. I'd rather the team build their brand by how they play on the field, not how they look when they get to the field. If he is willing to put image over safety, then there are some deep problems with his coaching philosophy.