No, I am not a troll. The situation is very real! It was not a stand alone decision on my part to allow her to return or not. Two weeks after finding out she was pregnant, the organization called a meeting of all coaches (10u-18u) to discuss the matter. I personally am not opposed to her returning to our team, but I was fighting an uphill battle with the other coaches. Their reasoning behind the decision was because they didn't want the other girls in the organization to think that this was acceptable behavior and that it would reflect negatively on the club. That is why I'm here asking this question. I want to know if this is a common way of thinking about the subject, and also to receive some input on how to approach this again with the other coaches. The athlete is a good girl caught up in a bad situation. She has a strong family support system and is now engaged to her boyfriend of 2 years, the baby's father. She has completed her junior year, and has taken extra classes online so that she doesn't have to attend school all day in her senior year. She has plans and goals, and I believe she can achieve them with or without softball. She just loves the game and wants to show other girls that they can succeed if they try, no matter the barriers put in front of them. I realize I didn't make it clear that I do not agree with their decision. I came to this forum to make sure I was thinking about this in the right manner. This forum has helped tremendously with all the comments and I will approach the organization again on her behalf. To be honest, if they can not see their ignorance, I may be looking to coach elsewhere.