Alluded to this the other day.
This is problematic to travel ball where anybody can call themself a coach.
Our family has stayed away from these type of coaches and it is helped our three daughters. We heavily research teams before we join them. Before handing over a check we will watch at least two weekends of softball the coach has entered the team in. After doing this repeatedly we learned the social status totem pole in our area and created a list of who to stay away from.
This is how we would describe one of the pitfalls to stay away from in travel ball.
Big fish who coach in a small pond is a social status trap. Small pond coach develops a reputation where it is limited to that small amount of people who may know that coach in a community.
Little do they know he has no experience beyond his small pond. The coach really doesn't have a reputation in the nationally competitive teams in travel. They may get invited to local Friendly's but those are small pond teams.
These small-minded coaches will discourage anything they are unaware is actually part of the sport because they have limited mind sets. They cannot see beyond their nose. They tend to repeat the same rhetoric trying to abolish what is happening in the big ocean. The big fish coach is the king of his small pond. Creating a false stigmata of self-importance and creating big ego.
When faced with answering to parents questioning things they to try to discourage others by trying to disqualify factual knowledge. They will even say someone else doesn't know what they're talking about even though they may be a D1 coach like a professional coach. They become so full of themselves they become clueless to
what is happening in the big bigger picture because it is not something they are familiar with. If they agreed with it would mean they have been wrong themselves. They do not try to grow out of their small pond because they are the king of their small pond.
And create false sense of self-importance. What becomes of this coach they stay small worse the players on the team stay small.
They cannot get out of their level of play because they have never grown their own coaching ability staying so small-minded.
It becomes a social status trap. Heres the damage it causes, it can fool parents looking for a developmental place for their children. Unknowingly joining small minded coached teams.
This ends up holding players back in their development. Most players on these type of Coach teams won't get beyond average the ones who figure it out leave quickly.
Don't pick a team because your friends are on it only to find out everyone else wants the same social status trap. Sometimes getting out of your own social group will be the best thing to see the bigger picture.
This is problematic to travel ball where anybody can call themself a coach.
Our family has stayed away from these type of coaches and it is helped our three daughters. We heavily research teams before we join them. Before handing over a check we will watch at least two weekends of softball the coach has entered the team in. After doing this repeatedly we learned the social status totem pole in our area and created a list of who to stay away from.
This is how we would describe one of the pitfalls to stay away from in travel ball.
Big fish who coach in a small pond is a social status trap. Small pond coach develops a reputation where it is limited to that small amount of people who may know that coach in a community.
Little do they know he has no experience beyond his small pond. The coach really doesn't have a reputation in the nationally competitive teams in travel. They may get invited to local Friendly's but those are small pond teams.
These small-minded coaches will discourage anything they are unaware is actually part of the sport because they have limited mind sets. They cannot see beyond their nose. They tend to repeat the same rhetoric trying to abolish what is happening in the big ocean. The big fish coach is the king of his small pond. Creating a false stigmata of self-importance and creating big ego.
When faced with answering to parents questioning things they to try to discourage others by trying to disqualify factual knowledge. They will even say someone else doesn't know what they're talking about even though they may be a D1 coach like a professional coach. They become so full of themselves they become clueless to
what is happening in the big bigger picture because it is not something they are familiar with. If they agreed with it would mean they have been wrong themselves. They do not try to grow out of their small pond because they are the king of their small pond.
And create false sense of self-importance. What becomes of this coach they stay small worse the players on the team stay small.
They cannot get out of their level of play because they have never grown their own coaching ability staying so small-minded.
It becomes a social status trap. Heres the damage it causes, it can fool parents looking for a developmental place for their children. Unknowingly joining small minded coached teams.
This ends up holding players back in their development. Most players on these type of Coach teams won't get beyond average the ones who figure it out leave quickly.
Don't pick a team because your friends are on it only to find out everyone else wants the same social status trap. Sometimes getting out of your own social group will be the best thing to see the bigger picture.