DD is 13. First year in TB. Moved with spring coach to new team; new coach promised DD to be the #1 pitcher. Coach laid it out right up front that we would play fall, take our lumps, grow and get better as a team and be ready to roll in spring. 3 tournaments in and he starts guesting in other pitchers. Giving DD very little to no circle time. DD pitched one game in last tourney where we won 6-3; DD got 5 pop outs and one grounder in 3 innings. Now this tourney upcoming he tells her he primarily wants her to catch, (DD also catches). The dilemma I am having is: do I step in and say something or do I make DD do it? I want her to stand up for herself; I feel coach needs to honor his commitment as he stated when we started up, "It's not about winning in the Fall." Any and all advice will be appreciated. THANKS!