Getting girls to understand situation and game management a lot of times it is not just CAN you throw the ball where it needs to go to try and get a girl out but SHOULD you throw the ball!
It is weird about this...kind of a "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
When they first start playing T-Ball, they are taught not to throw the ball too much. When they start playing 14U or so, they hold the ball too much.
With the 14U group, I find I have to encourage them to try. Many of the younger girls have been told "Don't throw the ball around!", are reluctant to throw the ball.