A while ago (Aug/Sept), I posted something about my daughter not making the cut on team she "traveled" with last year due to "inconsistent hitting". And of course, we found out AFTER all tryouts were said and done. So we found a spot with a weaker team for the time being...right now here are the pros/cons:
Pros:
* She is one of the top 2 players on team.
* She gets more pitching time.
* She gets more action positions if not pitching (has been playing SS)...before she was an outfielder (but a very good one at that too).
* The girls are really nice and sincere...she gets along with all of them.
* She is a leader on this team.
* Her confidence has soared...after 3 tournaments, her slugging % is around .750 - .850. She has been getting solid doubles/triples. Not inconsistent any more, are we?
Cons:
* Players and families are less dedicated to softball. Coach sends out email asking who is available certain weekends, and 2-3 players are out at least 2-4 weekends from November - December (note that half of December doesn't count since we are all out for holidays).
* Level of competition is lower. DD has to raise the bar for herself, she isn't as challenged by peers or by coaches.
* Practices are weak in comparison to what DD is used to. I fear that she will start slacking and fall behind tougher competition. She has been working on pulling in drills she's learned in the last 2 years into these practices (with coach's permission).
Now changing teams isn't what we "want" to do, but we wonder if we should. At the same time, she is getting more pitching time, and we also feel like taking this year to be a leader and gain confidence will help her more than finding a team that will challenge her or raise the bar higher. I just fear that staying with this team will be one of those "2-3 steps back" ordeals...and that if she tries out with another team in August 2012, we will struggle in just that...finding a stronger team. However, we also have the mindset of "showing off" in tournaments so that she does get noticed...so that they do remember her in tryouts. I just hate that here we are going on year three of select softball, and each year has been with a different team (not by our choice - first team got a brand new set of coaches and they were too hard core...of course now, we think we'd tryout with them come August 2012).
Not sure what I am trying to say here...guess I just need reassurance or possibly feedback/experiences on what others have done. And by the way, my dd is a 2nd year 12U player...she's a '99.
Pros:
* She is one of the top 2 players on team.
* She gets more pitching time.
* She gets more action positions if not pitching (has been playing SS)...before she was an outfielder (but a very good one at that too).
* The girls are really nice and sincere...she gets along with all of them.
* She is a leader on this team.
* Her confidence has soared...after 3 tournaments, her slugging % is around .750 - .850. She has been getting solid doubles/triples. Not inconsistent any more, are we?
Cons:
* Players and families are less dedicated to softball. Coach sends out email asking who is available certain weekends, and 2-3 players are out at least 2-4 weekends from November - December (note that half of December doesn't count since we are all out for holidays).
* Level of competition is lower. DD has to raise the bar for herself, she isn't as challenged by peers or by coaches.
* Practices are weak in comparison to what DD is used to. I fear that she will start slacking and fall behind tougher competition. She has been working on pulling in drills she's learned in the last 2 years into these practices (with coach's permission).
Now changing teams isn't what we "want" to do, but we wonder if we should. At the same time, she is getting more pitching time, and we also feel like taking this year to be a leader and gain confidence will help her more than finding a team that will challenge her or raise the bar higher. I just fear that staying with this team will be one of those "2-3 steps back" ordeals...and that if she tries out with another team in August 2012, we will struggle in just that...finding a stronger team. However, we also have the mindset of "showing off" in tournaments so that she does get noticed...so that they do remember her in tryouts. I just hate that here we are going on year three of select softball, and each year has been with a different team (not by our choice - first team got a brand new set of coaches and they were too hard core...of course now, we think we'd tryout with them come August 2012).
Not sure what I am trying to say here...guess I just need reassurance or possibly feedback/experiences on what others have done. And by the way, my dd is a 2nd year 12U player...she's a '99.