My 14 yr old middle school dd committed to a new team in the winter after being pursued by this coach for a couple of months.. This is supposed to be a 14/16u (3 middle school girls and the rest high school) showcase team. We were told that they wouldn't play much during the spring because most of the team plays high school ball and it will be too much for them. However, when we expressed a concern about that because we knew our daughter would not be happy with nearly an 8 month break (November-June) we were told that he would continue practicing and add a few spring tournaments to the schedule so the younger girls could continue playing. Well, we haven't had a team practice in well over a month. And the spring tournaments fell off the schedule without explanation. My dd has been guest playing with another team within the organization, but she has played for the coach/team before and she doesn't really want to be with the team. She is also playing bottom of the lineup and switching out in the outfield where she isn't used to playing the majority of the time because the coach is loyal to his players and we aren't paying. Not that there is anything wrong with it, but she has always been the starting catcher/3rd base so it's different. The problem is that the other coach keeps asking for more money up front because he has to pay for the showcase tournaments in advance, but we're not practicing or playing so my husband doesn't want to give him another penny. My husband wants her to play with the other team at least through this season and try to transfer the money we have paid in already to that team because they want her to play permanently. However knowing how my daughter feels about the coach and team, I am hesitant to make the move. She understands how we're feeling so she is willing to do it, but she isn't happy about it. I'm just concerned we are expecting too much from a showcase team and this is how it works. Do showcase teams really practice so infrequently? We have been having to pay for lessons and agility because they just aren't practicing and we don't want her to get rusty or lose interest after all of the work she has put into it over the years. We also don't know much about the sport to help her practice outside of practice. I'm also concerned about all of the empty promises this coach has made to us and we feel like maybe it is right to run. He is asking for another big payment towards future tournaments so I feel like I need to make a decision now before giving him another penny. Please help us make a decision. She is our oldest and we have no idea what we're doing when it comes to softball.