My dd will be 12 Halloween and entering her 5th year playing travel ball. She is an above average(admittedly not far above average, but above)pitcher, catcher, and hitter. I on the other hand, am a below average coach but I'm working to improve.
Something that I learned, even before coaching, is how important goals are. I try to make it a point to discuss goals with my players.
Like most people on this site, I'm sure, I also follow many softball pages on facebook. On some of those pages and on here I here people talk about their dd's or their own dreams. Dreams of playing for such and such team or the Olympics and so on.
So a couple days ago my dd and I were talking about team goals. Well, actually, I was doing the talking. She was doing her typical courtesy listening. I began to poke around about her own personal goals. To my dismay she had none. I tried to dig farther about specific goals in pitching, catching, anything. My dd can't just wonder aimlessly through her softball career without any goals.
I've tried prying before about any youthful dreams she might have about playing for team USA or UGA, but always get the same result. Nothing.
So after leading my witness and yes, maybe a lil badgering, the only goal or dream I could get out of her was, "Dad, I just wanna play ball."
Should I be worried?
Something that I learned, even before coaching, is how important goals are. I try to make it a point to discuss goals with my players.
Like most people on this site, I'm sure, I also follow many softball pages on facebook. On some of those pages and on here I here people talk about their dd's or their own dreams. Dreams of playing for such and such team or the Olympics and so on.
So a couple days ago my dd and I were talking about team goals. Well, actually, I was doing the talking. She was doing her typical courtesy listening. I began to poke around about her own personal goals. To my dismay she had none. I tried to dig farther about specific goals in pitching, catching, anything. My dd can't just wonder aimlessly through her softball career without any goals.
I've tried prying before about any youthful dreams she might have about playing for team USA or UGA, but always get the same result. Nothing.
So after leading my witness and yes, maybe a lil badgering, the only goal or dream I could get out of her was, "Dad, I just wanna play ball."
Should I be worried?