Thanks for talking me off the ledge guys. I was having a hard time picturing a coach telling her "nice home run but next time hit it over the RF wall". I have expanded my thinking to include the tools she might need beyond 12u.
When I front toss to my DD. I will at times say, on an outside pitch, that ball should have went to right field(DD RH) and not to left. Your hitting coach may be trying to 'help' your DD realize that you don't want to try and pull every ball. Also helps a hitter learn to swing 'out from' their bodies and not 'around' their bodies. JMHO.