I was in a similar situation when we first started our team a couple of months ago. 7 out of 12 had only played rec ball so we were going to go easy the first couple of practices, big mistake, they realized this and started to goof off and socializing during practice.After about 3 or 4 pratices of trying to get this under control with running laps, push ups ect. A couple of practices ago after about 10 minutes of sloppy throws and missing routine grounders I lined them up in front of their parents and ask a few questions some directed to the parents, some to the girls.The questions were as follows:
To the girls: Why are you here, do you really want to play ball? Are you practicing to the best of your ability? Do you realize the time and expense your parents are investing so you can play ball? Do you think your parents enjoy watching you socialize and goof off while they are sitting in the hot sun for 2 hours?
To the parents: Do you think your daughter is practicing to the best of her ability? Do you think your daughter should be punished for simple errors when at practice? Do you think your daughter is improving with practice going the way it has in the last couple of weeks?
Then after the parents and players were done answering those questions I sent the entire team home, told them if we had another practice start like this I would do the same again and that we would not practice again until after our next tournament which was three weeks away.
At the next practice they looked like a differant group of girls, they became ball players when they stepped onto the field, no horseplay of any kind just serios ball players. If one girl made an error she dropped and did 10 pushups without a word from anyone one the coaching staff, after the third girl dropped without being told I realized that I had screwed up from day 1. Now after a couple more practices we are finally having good practices and they are consantl improving. You have to take control and never look back, as a coach you are in charge the players and the parents need to know this and respect it if you ever want to have a chance.
1999coach
To the girls: Why are you here, do you really want to play ball? Are you practicing to the best of your ability? Do you realize the time and expense your parents are investing so you can play ball? Do you think your parents enjoy watching you socialize and goof off while they are sitting in the hot sun for 2 hours?
To the parents: Do you think your daughter is practicing to the best of her ability? Do you think your daughter should be punished for simple errors when at practice? Do you think your daughter is improving with practice going the way it has in the last couple of weeks?
Then after the parents and players were done answering those questions I sent the entire team home, told them if we had another practice start like this I would do the same again and that we would not practice again until after our next tournament which was three weeks away.
At the next practice they looked like a differant group of girls, they became ball players when they stepped onto the field, no horseplay of any kind just serios ball players. If one girl made an error she dropped and did 10 pushups without a word from anyone one the coaching staff, after the third girl dropped without being told I realized that I had screwed up from day 1. Now after a couple more practices we are finally having good practices and they are consantl improving. You have to take control and never look back, as a coach you are in charge the players and the parents need to know this and respect it if you ever want to have a chance.
1999coach