- Jun 22, 2008
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Yes all you said could be true.
People have been accused of child abuse when they were innocent and are victims of overzealous investigators and district attorneys and yes it ruins lives. That is why coaches, teachers and others need to make sure they are not put in a situation where they could be accused.
No argument there, but that is not always an option. Couple years ago a school bus driver was accused of offensive touching by a 14yo. Front page of the local news paper and their web site. Couple mentions on TV news. Man lost his job, his integrity, was completely shunned by his church where he did volunteer work and his kids had to change schools to avoid the bullying because there was no support from the admin. This was a "popular" girls in the class who couldn't possibly make something up like this.
After more than six months the investigation concluded with an admission by the girl that she made it up because he embarassed her in front of her friends because she was loud and jumping from seat to seat while the bus was in motion and the driver pulled over and told her to "shut up and sit down".
Newspaper buried it on the obit page, no mention of TV, his church folks acted like his move to another church had nothing to do with them.
Yeah, it isn't the standard, but it is still wrong which is my point about not being so quick to jump on a bandwagon condemning people unless you actually know, and that doesn't mean heard, read or supposed, what the hell happened. Mob rule isn't supposed to happen in this country, but the beginning of this thread makes it quite evident that people think is it okay as long as it is someone else.
The way I look at if by taking time to post some of my experiences and knowledge about abuse, if it keeps one kid from harm it is well worth the effort.
While I can appreciate that sentiment, it turns my stomach when used as justification. Too many people think it is okay to sacrifice many to save one. I don't.