My DD is on a new 12U travel team & we are currently in Fall Ball... Yesterday was our 2nd game, this game was actually just a scrimage against our 14U team. Our girls made many errors & didn't get any hits. (hit the ball, but no hits) One assistant coach was throwing around some "not so friendly words" in the dug out. He was saying "if they don't want to F***ing be here I can go home" and "I am so pissed off right now" and many others... and of course my DD had to be sitting out that inning too! (atleast she isn't to blame for the errors! lol)
He was saying these things to the HC & my DD said later that the HC just laughed at it. And maybe he didn't want to say anything right then, who knows.
But do I say something to the HC that I don't expect to hear that language coming from a coach... or wait it out to see if it happens again?
What are my lines to NOT cross as a parent... again - new team, so everyone is new to us....
I mean - this isn't how a 12U team should be... should it?
He was saying these things to the HC & my DD said later that the HC just laughed at it. And maybe he didn't want to say anything right then, who knows.
But do I say something to the HC that I don't expect to hear that language coming from a coach... or wait it out to see if it happens again?
What are my lines to NOT cross as a parent... again - new team, so everyone is new to us....
I mean - this isn't how a 12U team should be... should it?