Point is, thats what HS ball is about. Not you or me. About the relationships these kids make with their teammates. If we influence them in any negative way. They will quit. So I eat my seeds and take a chill pill and have my "drink" inside my Yeti and just watch. Maybe my views will change later, for now it seems things are going ok. Maybe warriorangela is lucky. Lets see what happens next year.
My DW said that DD was really emotional on the ride home after senior night last night... and we only have one senior. That one of her teammates - who she really, really likes - can't come back and play with her again ever - even if she wanted to - really hit her hard.