Cannonball
Ex "Expert"
- Feb 25, 2009
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I had a really tough day yesterday as we had limbs down, ... I had to cut them up and haul them away and so, I was absolutely drenched in sweat and worn out. I went to a local deli to get a sweet tea and they have the best sweet tea in town. I ran into an old friend who is a lot younger than I. I asked him how his dd was doing and I know she is going to be very good. He had heard we were giving lessons and asked if I could get his dd in. I told him we just shut down but I would do a lesson or two if it would help with tryouts. His answer was that a lesson or two won't matter and that his dd is horrible. I told him I saw her when she was very young playing and she was the best on the field. His answer was, "yeah well the girls on the field were worse." No matter how much I tried to reassure him that everything is alright and that his dd will be very good, he kept saying that she does not meet his standards. My goodness, she is 10 now.
I walked away knowing I have to do a few things. First, I have to give this young lady lessons. Next, I have to tell him that he is the problem. It might ruin a friendship but it has to be said. I know the type of relationship some of you have with your dd. I know that members like Sluggers are very close to their DDs and have done such an outstanding job of raising them. Most of you seem to have such great lines of communication between you and your dds. I know that BB and I talk about everything and I mean everything. Walking away from the encounter really made my bad day horrible. If this dad is half as bad with his dd as it seemed in talking to him, she is absolutely miserable.
Please, for those of you that haven't stepped back and check yourself, for your dd's sake PLEASE do so.
I walked away knowing I have to do a few things. First, I have to give this young lady lessons. Next, I have to tell him that he is the problem. It might ruin a friendship but it has to be said. I know the type of relationship some of you have with your dd. I know that members like Sluggers are very close to their DDs and have done such an outstanding job of raising them. Most of you seem to have such great lines of communication between you and your dds. I know that BB and I talk about everything and I mean everything. Walking away from the encounter really made my bad day horrible. If this dad is half as bad with his dd as it seemed in talking to him, she is absolutely miserable.
Please, for those of you that haven't stepped back and check yourself, for your dd's sake PLEASE do so.