- Sep 4, 2012
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OK. My daughter is on a new team for fall 12 and spring 13. Another parent with two daughters, who have played on team with my kid for several years, did not seek try-outs. She asked where I was taking her kids to try-out. I stated that I wouldn't. Once my daughter was offered a position on a team and we accepted, this mom emailed the coach, without my knowledge, to say that she knows me and that she has two coachable daughters that she thinks he wants on his team. She then sends a text message to me to ask if I can take her children to the next practice.
First, I am mortified that she did this. She was too lazy to seek out try-outs on her own. I adore her girls, and have no issues with driving her daughters andywhere that I am going. I don't really have a relationship with this coach. I only met him at the tryout and have spoken to him a couple of times since then. We have the first team practice coming up. I don't want him to think I am recruiting. I don't want him to think I was over-stepping my boundaries. Again, these girls are are good kids. One is a utility player who is as good (or even better) than my daughter. The other is coachable but doesn't come close in ability to her sister or to my daughter. This mother is the kind of person who is never satisfied and likes to stir up trouble. She alienates the other parents and feels like the abilities of the "good daughter" make up for her bad behavior.
Do I talk to the coach to let him know I didn't encourage this mom to contact him? If I call him, how much information do I give him? I don't know what to do. Advice is appreciated.
Thank you.
First, I am mortified that she did this. She was too lazy to seek out try-outs on her own. I adore her girls, and have no issues with driving her daughters andywhere that I am going. I don't really have a relationship with this coach. I only met him at the tryout and have spoken to him a couple of times since then. We have the first team practice coming up. I don't want him to think I am recruiting. I don't want him to think I was over-stepping my boundaries. Again, these girls are are good kids. One is a utility player who is as good (or even better) than my daughter. The other is coachable but doesn't come close in ability to her sister or to my daughter. This mother is the kind of person who is never satisfied and likes to stir up trouble. She alienates the other parents and feels like the abilities of the "good daughter" make up for her bad behavior.
Do I talk to the coach to let him know I didn't encourage this mom to contact him? If I call him, how much information do I give him? I don't know what to do. Advice is appreciated.
Thank you.