So a high school football team should play college teams to get a measure of where they are? College basketball teams should play NBA teams? Because that is about the same difference in skill.
My B team does not have a single player that takes personal instruction in hitting or fielding. Only one is planning to play in college and that is at Div 3. All of them fit softball in around jobs. Half did not play HS softball this year. My roster doesn't have 1 player that made 1st team all conf in HS this year, let alone all-state. Yet we are competitive in a true B tournament. Don't win them, but play competitively.
Upset about playing teams better than us? Well we paid $450 this weekend to get run ruled in 3 of 4 games. (Twice by the same team I mentioned in my original post) If you think I should enjoy that experience, you must believe in Bobby Knight's approach to handling rape. (Just sit back and enjoy it)
We have no real illusions of getting better. We are at 18U and 60% of my team will play their last game of softball in 2 weeks. Hopefully that game will not be to fill some putz's trophy cabinet.
Travel ball is competitive softball. B is a step for teams not yet ready to play A. If you have no goal of improving then maybe you should be playing in a rec league. If you play travel, you will play against different levels of competition regardless of whether you play A or B. You can look at the better teams you play as "Trophy Hunters" or as opportunities to see what your team needs to do to improve. I guess it depends on your goals. If your goal is to not practice, or not improve, but to play competitive tournaments, why are you playing a 450 dollar NSA State championship tournament?
I guess I'm just tired of hearing B teams complain about A teams trophy hunting while not having a good definition of the difference. Look at all the teams in your age group, the top team is A, the bottom team is B. There are alot in the middle that can't win in A, but can in B. What are they? B teams when they play A, and trophy hunters when they play B. Just sayin'.