My dd is a lefty, and was a pitcher for about 3 years. Around the time she turned 12, her pitching was struggling a bit, but she had just had a huge growth spurt, and her emotions started getting the best of her (she has always been the hardest on herself, and confidence dropped drastically). So, she "took a break" from pitching, but still loves the game, plays first base and bats fairly well. A few months after her break, she started picking up the ball again and pitching with dad on the side, not in games or with team. I think she knew it broke her dad's heart when she stopped pitching, and she gave it another shot, but then abruptly stopped again, saying she just doesn't enjoy pitching.
Our dilemma is this: my husband and I really believe she has a talent for pitching (coaches have told us this also). She isn't a very fast pitcher (which I know really bothered her, compared to her pitching teammates), but had good movement on her pitches and when "on", could really hit her spots. We feel that someday she will come to us and say, "why did you let me quit pitching?"
If she plans to play beyond high school (and right now, that is her goal), a lefty pitcher is something special. There are not too many in our area, and we think it would be of value. Anyone can play first base, and though she is good at it, colleges won't see that as anything worthy of a scholarship. (We totally know that you have to be a stud athlete for a Div.1 school, so we are not thinking in that realm, but you never know what other possibilities are out there).
Now that she has turned 13, we would like to "encourage" her to try it again. (part of me says, leave it alone, being a pitcher's parent is a hard life! lol) Don't want to scare her off, her dad and her are very close, but pitching to him seems to bring out the worst in them both, a love/hate relationship at times. Any advice? Anyone been there?
Thanks
Our dilemma is this: my husband and I really believe she has a talent for pitching (coaches have told us this also). She isn't a very fast pitcher (which I know really bothered her, compared to her pitching teammates), but had good movement on her pitches and when "on", could really hit her spots. We feel that someday she will come to us and say, "why did you let me quit pitching?"
If she plans to play beyond high school (and right now, that is her goal), a lefty pitcher is something special. There are not too many in our area, and we think it would be of value. Anyone can play first base, and though she is good at it, colleges won't see that as anything worthy of a scholarship. (We totally know that you have to be a stud athlete for a Div.1 school, so we are not thinking in that realm, but you never know what other possibilities are out there).
Now that she has turned 13, we would like to "encourage" her to try it again. (part of me says, leave it alone, being a pitcher's parent is a hard life! lol) Don't want to scare her off, her dad and her are very close, but pitching to him seems to bring out the worst in them both, a love/hate relationship at times. Any advice? Anyone been there?
Thanks