We had our travel team tryouts last Sunday... got the call last night that my daughter made the 12u travel team (yeah!). A friend called me last night to see if my daughter made the team.... her's did not! They play together on Jr High ball & she is baffled as to why her daughter didn't make it.
I do know it was close for the coaches (I am friends with them as well), they stated there was really only 1 girl that they could say didn't do well, the others were so close they came up with a formula for the cuts (had to cut 3 girls).
Didn't have this issue last year in 10u team (which both my girl & her's played on) - we had to search for girls to play. This is the first year for 12u travel team & first cut for our girls too.
My daughters class is the biggest class for our Grade School in over 10 years. Our entire 7th Grade Softball Team is 6th graders, etc.
How do you support your friend in a situation like this?
I do know it was close for the coaches (I am friends with them as well), they stated there was really only 1 girl that they could say didn't do well, the others were so close they came up with a formula for the cuts (had to cut 3 girls).
Didn't have this issue last year in 10u team (which both my girl & her's played on) - we had to search for girls to play. This is the first year for 12u travel team & first cut for our girls too.
My daughters class is the biggest class for our Grade School in over 10 years. Our entire 7th Grade Softball Team is 6th graders, etc.
How do you support your friend in a situation like this?