The problem is, I was probably going to start her tonight in the OF, but now I'm not sure if I should, if it would show weakness on my behalf. Or do I sit her to prove a point that this won't be tolerated? Is my ego getting in the way?
Only play her OF IF it works for the team. No if's, and's or but's about it...if you have another player that is better suited for OF, then play them. That's all that matters. It's the parent's problem...not yours. You have a TEAM to coach and play...no mind games should come into this equation whatsoever. That's my take on it.