DD is struggling with "mental toughness". She broke down last night in tears saying she didn't know what she wanted to do. Finally came out that she is scared to death and wasn't sure if she is ready for it (i.e. mental toughing). We talked more at length about it, and I reassured her that she didn't have to do D1...and that there were plenty of D2, D3, NAIA and JUCO schools that we can consider. But I also stated that education is first, and right now the best engineering schools (within our state) are D1. She said wouldn't accept less (she is very competitive and strives to be the best) but that she was terrified of the level that D1 is (even though she plays very competitively). All I could say is that we would be there every step of the way, and that we would explore all options. AND I told her that she NEEDS to communicate with her coaches about softball. She hasn't performed at her level the last couple of tournaments, and she is giving herself a VERY hard time about it. She doesn't want to ask the coaches to put in a good word for her for an upcoming camp because she feels like she hasn't proven herself. I can't make her talk to her coaches, but I have emphasized what she could potentially lose if she doesn't. And that it's not fair to assume what her coaches think of her. This cartoon describes DD to a T:
Last edited: