- Nov 29, 2009
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After reading the "Crazy Parent" thread in the pitching forum I found a pervasive sentiment reiterated throughout the thread. I thought I would share my perception of the reason these parents are so nervous during games when their DD is in the circle. They expect them to fail! That train of thought will drive you crazy and will ultimately trickle down to your DD.
If your DD has put in the time, work and sweat then show that you have confidence in her abilities. Saying it is not good enough. Your body language speaks VOLUMES! And your DD will pick up on it a heartbeat. I guarantee you that through the din of white noise that surrounds a softball game your DD WILL hear your voice and see your reactions to the game.
Other parents used to ask me how I could stay so calm during the tense situations in a game. I would always shrug my shoulders and tell them I wasn't playing the game. I was only a spectator. In truth I knew without a doubt my DD was well prepared to handle most any game situation and her pitching mechanics were very sound. We spent thousands of hours working on her pitching. I absolutely believed she would prevail. She didn't need to see me dancing like a little kid having to take a pee.
Do your DD's a favor and change your mindset. Expect them to succeed. Accept that they will fail. Support them no matter what. Realize the game belongs to them.
If your DD has put in the time, work and sweat then show that you have confidence in her abilities. Saying it is not good enough. Your body language speaks VOLUMES! And your DD will pick up on it a heartbeat. I guarantee you that through the din of white noise that surrounds a softball game your DD WILL hear your voice and see your reactions to the game.
Other parents used to ask me how I could stay so calm during the tense situations in a game. I would always shrug my shoulders and tell them I wasn't playing the game. I was only a spectator. In truth I knew without a doubt my DD was well prepared to handle most any game situation and her pitching mechanics were very sound. We spent thousands of hours working on her pitching. I absolutely believed she would prevail. She didn't need to see me dancing like a little kid having to take a pee.
Do your DD's a favor and change your mindset. Expect them to succeed. Accept that they will fail. Support them no matter what. Realize the game belongs to them.