I am a AC on my DD's team. I try very hard to separate, Dad from coach. Team practice and game time, Its the coach hat, not dad hat. When I was first approached by the HC to be a AC, I spoke to my DD one on one and told her that she will not get any special treatment. She is to earn everything just like all the other players. I've always been hesitant to be a coach on my DD's team, because I didn't want the relationship to be ruined, because I couldn't separate coach and dad. Its a tough thing. I let her bring up any games on the ride home.
I’ve been an AC for DD’s team the last two years. It’s been a lot of fun. Last year was a learning curve for both of us. And this year was waaaay easier. The boundaries of Dad vs Coach were clearer and our conversations easier.
I’ll also say being her coach has helped us grow closer outside of softball. And helped create better communication at home. It’s been great.
This will be my last year coaching her as she’ll move into a higher level program in Fall. It’s bitter-sweet. Bummed I won’t be on the field with her anymore. But I’m really looking forward to just sitting back and watching her play.