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Softball
My daughter plays little league softball for our community and she is in 3rd grade 9yrs old a volunteer dad(coach) gets upset and yells at the girls ( not just his kids but mine also) this upsets me but not my husband. He says if she's not doing what she's supposed to then it's OK however I feel that this is a time to learn the fundamentals and the love of the game. Is this normal and I'm overreacting or should I say something to the head coach ( another volunteer dad)???
Phew... Until I saw you lived in Texas... Thought you were talking about my husband!! Lol.
Softball to me is a very competitive, fast, loud, emotional sport. My husband is very loud and an equal opportunity "yeller" at all the girls. He "yells" at girls or even to a specific girl to "keep your butt down", "hustle on and off the field", "Run", "Catch the ball", he might appear to the bleachers that he's upset (taking hat off & on 50 times, flushed red & lost voice) but that's just him. BUT he will also be the first to "yell" at girls when they get that RBI or catch that pop up or make a good play!!
I just think softball is intense at any level, and I don't believe for one minute that every coach, starting at T-ball doesn't want to win! If you don't want to win and are not razzed up when your 12th batter hits the winning hit (and is not loud & yelling) then maybe they need to play golf or do ballet.