I had a pitcher for several years that was very intimidating. She threw very hard and when she checked the runners she looked really serious. Her look said,"dont even think it!" But that was not how this girl really is. It is her way of focusing. She is one of the nicest girls I have ever coached. I used to call time in a game just so I could walk out and talk. She looked at me just as seriously as I walked out and then the first thing she would say is "Hi Coach". Dont judge the book by its cover. .