There is no way I'd move a 9YO to 12U. Ever. And I certainly wouldn't even consider it if the girl in question is anything less than the absolute best player on her 10U team, and even then I still wouldn't consider it.
Strong, mature second-year 12U teams have far more in common with 14U than they do with 10U. In fact, a good mature 12U should play some 14U on occasion. Really good 10U teams often struggle when they have to age up to 12U, as well.
Just remember that 13YO girls can be fully grown. I have a TON of experience with 12U ..... my advice? Leave your ego at home and let your DD play 10U where she belongs.
This is what I did - move her up to 12U right when she turned 10. She had usually played up in house ball, so she (and I) thought it would be "fun" to keep her with girls she had played with before. That was my mistake. If I had put her on that 10U team, I think she could've shined more. Big fish in small pond theory. Hopefully, as a PP mentioned, she will be ahead of the curve for next year if we find a different team.
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