You are very correct, Squishing the bug is a joke. As Justin Stone says "the foot goes for a ride". There is no arguing, just watch video. It never lies.
I'm all about the hips leading the swing, however if you have a kid that just doesn't get it, tell her to jump start the hips with the knee and watch the instant success. Next film her and show her the results. Most generally it is just too much to comprehend. Ask your hitters to tell you...
I think the Stone videos are great. However, he does not mention what he does with the rear elbow or the path of his hands. I think his videos are great and would recommend them to anyone. My problem with him is that he is in Illinois and I am in Texas.
So how do you guys explain yourself to a 10 year old or a single parent(without a clue) that wants to work with their kid at home. I know you guys aren't using all of this scientific lingo with your students, because there would be little comprehension and a very short attention span...