Her age will dictate the advice but others have already covered some important ones which Ill repeat:
1. Have assistant coaches be her coach - some girls are the biggest brats to their own parents and sweathearts to others
2. Playing time - even if she is the best player bench her if her attitude stinks - she may not get it but the other kids and parents will
3. Get a 3rd party assessment on situation: Ask your other coaches and parents if THEY feel the same way you do - we tend to be our kids worst critics
4. Take a season off as manager and have her be coached by someone else (fall ball is ideal time)
I will add:
5. Talk about sportsmanship and teamwork to WHOLE team and run drills etc that require cooperation among teammates... her seeing the talk to whole team and not just her may make her less defensive and more willing to be part of the team
1. Have assistant coaches be her coach - some girls are the biggest brats to their own parents and sweathearts to others
2. Playing time - even if she is the best player bench her if her attitude stinks - she may not get it but the other kids and parents will
3. Get a 3rd party assessment on situation: Ask your other coaches and parents if THEY feel the same way you do - we tend to be our kids worst critics
4. Take a season off as manager and have her be coached by someone else (fall ball is ideal time)
I will add:
5. Talk about sportsmanship and teamwork to WHOLE team and run drills etc that require cooperation among teammates... her seeing the talk to whole team and not just her may make her less defensive and more willing to be part of the team