As far as the strike zone, I have already asked, from the dug out, "where did that miss" and have the umpire signal high, low, inside, outside. This guy, tried asking (in between innings) and he wouldn't even tell me. Just said they were not strikes.
We have also had the catchers do exactly what was mentioned, last year, but I have all inexperienced catchers this year. They are still trying to get comfortable behind the plate and pay attention to me for signs. Being able to talk to the umpire will come.
I have kept all my conversations with the umpires quiet enough that its just us that know what is being talked about. When I approached the plate umpire and talked to him, he asked the field umpire from about half way to first if stealing second off a walk was allowed. That's when the 1st base coach starting yelling.
We have also had the catchers do exactly what was mentioned, last year, but I have all inexperienced catchers this year. They are still trying to get comfortable behind the plate and pay attention to me for signs. Being able to talk to the umpire will come.
I have kept all my conversations with the umpires quiet enough that its just us that know what is being talked about. When I approached the plate umpire and talked to him, he asked the field umpire from about half way to first if stealing second off a walk was allowed. That's when the 1st base coach starting yelling.